New Sibling Adjustment

Bringing home a brand‑new baby brother or sister may be one of the most meaningful gifts you can give an older child… but they don’t always see it that way at first!

Becoming an older sibling is a huge adjustment.

Night nurse and doula helping older siblings adjust in Southern California

Some children are instantly excited and eager to help with the new baby, while others feel unsure, overwhelmed, or even a little sad. It’s completely normal for an older child to wonder why they aren’t getting the same attention they used to — or to act out as they try to make sense of all the changes happening around them. Every child responds differently, and every family needs support that fits their unique dynamic.

As a New Parent Coach, I help you navigate what your older child may be experiencing and offer gentle, practical ways to make this transition smoother for everyone.

Common questions:

Doula and night nurse offering gentle support for sibling adjustment

When should I tell my toddler about a new baby?

How do I tell my child about a new sibling?

How can I prepare my child for a new baby?

How do I introduce a new baby sibling to my older child?

How do you handle jealousy between an older sibling and a newborn?

Will my older child have a sleep regression when the new baby comes home?

How do I have bedtime with 2 kiddos?

Welcoming a new little one is a big transition. I’m here to help make things a bit easier and ensure you feel supported every step of the way. As your New Parent Coach, I offer guidance, ideas, and practical strategies to help your older child adjust with confidence, connection, and calm.